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05 31st, 2010

I’ve posted some brand new photos from a recent 2010 photoshoot for you. If you’d like to see them click here to go to the femme domme photo gallery.



Different Kinks for Different People

Author: Experienced Domme
02 22nd, 2010

I was explaining to someone lately that there are as many brands of submission as there are kinds of people.  Some people love the dynamic of being submissive, of having someone else tell them what to do.  Some people are masochists to one extent or another and love pain.  Some people are mild masochists, some are severe.  When you are a masochist, it can be difficult to find someone who will take you to the place you want to go safely.

Some people have fetishes.  Foot fetishes are common, as are shoe fetishes and boot fetishes.  Some have leather fetishes.  Some have fetishes for a specific kind of fabric or material, like a satin fetish or a silk fetish, a latex fetish or a rubber fetish.  They love the feel and look of the fabric, sometimes the smell.

Some people love bondage, they love being restrained.  Sometimes it’s a specific kind of bondage – rope bondage, or leather restraints, a hog-tie or a spread eagle position.  Other times it’s just the sensation of being helpless, of not being able to move, of being able to struggle without being released.

Some people like role-playing.  They want to pretend to be something or someone they are not, or play out a scenario they like.  Sometimes it might be playing a specific kind of scene, like a school scene or a medical scene.  In some ways, it’s all about role-playing, but sometimes it’s more overt than others.

Sometimes the role-playing is more animal-based, like pony or puppy play.  There’s something very freeing about becoming an animal, without responsibilities or worries, an animal who is catered to and cared for.  Sometimes the gear is a big part of the fun.  Having harnesses and pony tales, having dog toys and a crate, all of that can be part of the fun.

Some people are into spanking or being spanked.  They love everything about spanking, and that might include other things, but it also might not.  They might also like bondage, or role playing, or they might just like spanking.

Some people like age play.  They like pretending to be a child again, or even an infant.  They might like to color, or play with stuffed toys, to be taken care of in the way a child is often taken care of.  They might like some of the trappings of childhood, the toys and clothes, or they might like the dynamic of a kind parent who looks out for their child.   To be very clear, these are adults who like to pretend to be younger than they are, or to interact with others that like to pretend to be younger.

Some people might like any number of those things, or different things at different times or with different people.  We all have a multitude of sides and interests and we all have different needs.  The first step to having those needs met, though, is being able to say what they are.



New Year’s Resolutions

Author: Experienced Domme
02 4th, 2010

It’s been some time since I posted, I suppose I’ve been too busy with sessions to have time, and that’s not all bad, either.  It’s cold now, wintry out there, and we’re in that part of the year when the holidays are a distant memory and spring is still just a promise a few months out.

I have done some fun sessions lately, some role-playing with a submissive friend of mine, some enjoyable CBT, a cross-dresser or two.  It’s amazing the variety of interests submissives have, isn’t it?

I find, too, that people seem to, as the New Year rolls in, be interested in exploring their fantasies.  I think that, as the calendar turns another year, it’s more likely that they see that those years aren’t unlimited.  They see the minutes of their lives ticking away, and don’t want so many more to tick away while they wonder about the things they’ve always fantasized about, the things they don’t want to miss experiencing.

And, of course, that’s where I come in.



Custom Erotica Sample

Author: Experienced Domme
06 9th, 2009

I thought some of you might appreciate a sample of my custom erotica.  Maybe you’d like to read the end of the story, too…

He heard them outside before they came into the house. He’d been lying there in the dark, bound, blindfolded, nothing to concentrate on, nothing to think about except what was about to happen. She had locked the new chastity device on him before blindfolding him and binding him to the table. “I’ll be back later,” she had promised, “maybe with a surprise. You’d like a surprise, wouldn’t you?” He had nodded, mutely, only able to imagine what the surprise might be.

So he had laid there in the dark for what he estimated was an hour or maybe two. Time had begun to blur. He had thought about all the things she had told him in the past, the things she had done to him before, the threats she had made. “Someday I’ll bring my black lover here and fuck him right in front of you, give you an idea of what a real man does.” Each taunt had made him more excited, made it easier for him to picture it. He had laid there, unable to move more than slightly, thinking about everything she had ever told him, everything she had ever told him about her and her lovers.

He heard the car door slam, heard faint laughing outside, then a key in the door. The voices were muffled at first, but he wasn’t sure if it was because of the distance or because the words seemed to be punctuated with long kisses. He could make out occasional words, her voice higher, laughing, with a familiar teasing note to it and another he hadn’t heard, a trace of lust around the edges. The man’s voice was deeper, roughened slightly with his own hunger, no trace of blackness to his speech.

He concentrated, straining to hear her. “…surprise for you…a man…won’t bother us…see how a real man fucks…” The man’s voice was a little hesitant, questioning, but her responses were soothing, and he suspected that the silences were due to her more direct methods of convincing him. He heard them coming up the stairs finally, then felt them in the room, behind him…



Spring springs

Author: Experienced Domme
04 15th, 2009

I’m quite glad to see a lilac in bloom outside my window.  The advantage to it being cooler in the spring is that the early flowers last longer.

I’ve been busy with a number of things, including some pleasant play.  I played with a most attractive gentleman the other evening and quite enjoyed myself.  It was his first play experience, and while i knew his primary taste wasn’t for pain, I also knew that given that he was a long-distance runner, that he had a certain capacity for it.  I put him on a pillory post, his wrists bound in leather cuffs that were then attached to chains.  The post was basically a t-shaped affair, with chains hanging from the crossed post across the top.  I didn’t do anything terribly extreme to him, given that it was a new experience for him, though I did warm his ass nicely with hand spankings.  I flogged him a bit, and used one of my favorite leather paddles as well.  There’s something quite attractive about a man hanging, blindfolded, at one’s mercy.

I am heading to Florida for a week or so shortly.  It will be nice to have my toes wiggling in sand, to walk along the beach and get some sun and some relaxation.  I expect when I come back I’ll be refreshed and ready to make a few more gentlemen thoroughly uncomfortable in thoroughly enjoyable ways.



New Web Site Up and Running

Author: Experienced Domme
04 2nd, 2009

I’m very glad to have this new site up and functional.  I think it looks great, and I hope you all do, too.  I’ll be adding more things in the next few weeks, definitely more blog posts, and I have a photo shoot scheduled for later this week as well, so I’ll be adding photos, too.  I’ve added some additional things, services I’ve always offered but on a sort of random basis, like customized erotic stories.

I also just joined with Twitter, which seems fun, and a place you can track me and my travels if you like.



New Website for Ms. C!

Author: Experienced Domme
03 31st, 2009

The new design for the website is now up, with plenty of information about me and how you may contact me for a session. If you have any questions don’t hesitate to contact me.



Welcome to My Website

Author: Ms. C
03 31st, 2009

Welcome to my website. Please see my information page to learn more about me and for information about establishing a contact for possible sessions. You may check my travel and announcement blog for my current schedule, travel and appearances. Check back here often for my personal writing as well as any updates I may have for you.

Ms. C